21 Days of Prayer and Fasting | checkup #1

by - January 08, 2018

To be totally honest I was sorta hesitant to post this piece because it was so personal and I like others don't want to be guilty of "forcing my beliefs on others" however after I got over the need to be politically correct I realized that this was an opportunity to reach others since this is something that makes me, me. As some of you guys know from watching my YouTube channel, I am a Christian who believes that Jesus came to this earth, died and then was resurrected on the third day. Anyway, at the start of every year my church does 21 days of prayer and fasting. Now that we've hit the start of 2018 it is time for this to start back up, and I'm super excited because it is a super powerful time. I wanted to go ahead and address here on my blog, because this is my little space on the internet - meaning I shouldn't be afraid to fill it how I want.

1| What is it? 

A question I tend to get asked is what is it exactly and why would I want to do this? Firstly, this is a period of three weeks in which I choose to give up something that I believe prevents me from all that God has for me. The first thing to know though is that fasting isn't limited to food. It can be applied to a multitude of things in our life. A few things that come to mind immediately are social media, music, games, the news, and TV/Netflix. Basically, anything that distracts you can be fasted. For more information on Soul fasts, check out this page which details it and other types of fasts wonderfully.

2| Why?

Another question I tend to get asked is why. Why would I choose to forgo something that I enjoy? My simplest answer is that like many things in life they are good in moderation, but sometimes as you continue to use (and overuse them) the line between good and bad blurs. The purpose of fasting specifically in this sense though is to give me the opportunity to draw closer to God, for when you choose to remove certain things from your life you allow yourself to refocus your gaze on God. This will be the third year that I participate in this, and I can truly say that it is truly powerful! It's crazy how God moves when you choose to give more time to Him and sit humbly awaiting His word.

giving up M U S I C

With that being said I decided that this year I would give up secular music for 21 days. I've known for a while that it has been having an impact on my life, mostly because of the type of music that I tended to be interested in. This is not to say that all music should be God-focused, but shows that the type of music you fill your head with can impact your mood and emotions. I know that for me personally, music is a way that I express myself. I like to say that I have a song for every moment that life hits me with.

Normally when you hear something as drastic as this you scoff and think how is she going to do that? In all honesty like with my other goals I have to do some preparation before it's "showtime". The first thing that had to go was my current playlists. The great thing about it being January was that I make my spotify playlists in 3 month increments meaning that I would be starting the year off with a fresh playlist that had yet to be filled. My first step was to go ahead and give myself a few starter songs for the year that I had enjoyed from earlier

I also knew that I would need music for my car, because I knew I wouldn't be able to subsist on jazz music alone in the mornings especially when my daily rides to school were about to start back up. That is why I went ahead and created a playlist on Amazon Prime for my rides to school. Now you're proabbly wondering why I chose Amazon prime instead of spotify. Even though I love both apps I simply can't bring myself to spend the money to have Spotify premium. Without premium you are only able to listen to music with the shuffle feature on, which I can't stand since I set my playlists up to follow the amount of time it normally takes for me to reach school. I live about 12 minutes away and if I don't speed that means I'll be able to listen to 3 songs. I like to have 2 sped up songs and then one slow song to get myself centered for the school day and shuffle just doesn't allow me to do that. Anyway, with that being said I created a playlist on Amazon prime and have linked it below. There are a few songs left out simply because again I refuse to pay for amazon music unlimited, but this will hopefully hold me over for the next 3 weeks.

filling up on P R A Y E R and H I S  W O R D

With that being said what am I going to be replacing the time that I would've spent listening to music? I'm taking these 3 weeks as an opportunity to really allow myself to delve deeper into the Bible by applying myself to finish a bible study from the Bible app in this time. I already have a prayer journal, but during this time I want to be more consistent and actually write in it daily (or as close to daily as I can).

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  1. Good for you! As a Catholic, I definitely understand. We did this during Lent. Honestly, GOD should be first in your life. I know there was a point in my life when I didn't put him first and things got out of order in my life. Things went awry. I thank him each day for what he's given me. I try to help others when I can. This was a great post.

  2. I never thought fasting included other things like social media and tv shows and other stuff you love. I always thought it was just about food. But I get what you mean, if you are fasting, you have to be focused on praying and reading your Bible and all those other things are distractions.
    The Glossychic

  3. I'm a Christian, too :) I think it's awesome that you're doing this fast, it can really be an intimate thing to do and bring us closer to God. I agree that fasting isn't only restricted to food, which is contrary to what many think, since it's the most common thing to be given up. This goes to show that everyone and anyone can participate in a fast, regardless of age. I see some of my favorite artists you listen to. I love J Moss and Lecrae, as well as Beckah Shae and Da Truth. Thanks for sharing, girlie, and I hope you have a great week ahead; Happy New Year!



  4. This is a wonderful idea! I hope your time is spent well and makes the effort worthwhile!


  5. I really love this post. Fasting in the first three weeks will defo set you up for the rest of the year. Get poised and ready for a wonderful 2018. Also thank you for sharing your playlist. I have been scouting for some new christian music for when I'm cooking for the fam or driving to the store. God bless you.



  6. This is awesome!! When I moved to Jerusalem for the year when I turned 19-- I gave up secular music for an entire year-- but it was so worth it. Sometimes, you need to fine tune your sensitivity skills a bit, because this world can very much blunt us of our fine tuned values and sensitivities. seriously, go you Avalon! They way I did it was basically leave my iPod at home in LA for a year lol -- but honestly, I just listened to a lot of classical, film scores, lindsey stirling and Jewish music-- and it was awesome.


  7. Great Post<3
    Thank you so much for sharing
    we wish you a lovely day

  8. Such an interesting topic, and I'm glad you chose to blog about it - you're not pushing your beliefs at all, instead very respectful and informative! I had no idea the fasting applied to more than just food, how interesting. I hope these three weeks are beautifully calm for you :)